I hear what your saying Kelley. Its a tough call. There is no right answer. I was on the verge of a nervous breakdown. I had no choice at that point. Stay married for the sake of being married, not to hurt him or my daughter...it was sham anyway. Or make a real choice and not lose my mind. He really drained me of all that made me who I am over the years. I am fighting to get that back.

I just hope he can still love me for being who I am and not the person he tried to mold me into.


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.