we love lissie

[Lissie]

I find that so many times my thread, or a thread about me, bring out the best and worst in people.

I thank you all for what you have written.

I am blessed, for what you have written.

I just hate the back and forth of it .

I see myself as a good parent, and that is it. Nothing more and nothing less.

Thank you guys again. It is very very hard for me to read this thread. I don't know how to explain it, without sounding ungrateful.

((((((((((((Figgy)))))))))))))I know why you say the things you say. It's ok mamma. It's ok to let it go.

And I know that you very secure in the love you have with your BF, and that is the way Figgy roles.

If Javier wakes up or not, it not my concern right now, My concern is my safety.

And who would of ever thought that would be a concern?

bleh


So again, thank you.

But let's not let things get ugly.

(sigh)

[always_14]

((( lissie )))

smooches kiddo!

your concern is your safety. Your babies. your family, and your future.

the one saying my parents repeated when i was growing up, and i suspect the creedo of all immigrants: take the best of all worlds and move forward.

substitute a cuban accent and aching shoulder and you probably heard it a million times!

and that's exactly what you'll do.

[fig]

phew

I am not giddy that someone else doesn't. I'm not quit sure of where the idea that I was giddy came from.

I think that an abusive person, someone who has threatened harm to his wife and children will not wake up nor do I think suggesting they will is in any way empowering or uplifting. I think helping Lissie know that she deserves better than that is important. And no...an abusive person like that will never be worthy of a good person.

You can be weirded out all you want. It doesn't bother me. I am sorry that it bothers you. Lissie is my best friend and I love her like a sister...

I'm sorry if that seems weird.

it doesn't seem weird to me or to her or to our other friends. I sometimes forget that not everyone is privy to our friendships. Any friend I have at that level I love and talk about in the same way.

[Mickey]

Fig there is a danger in putting anyone on such a high pedestal.

Usually at cost to that person.

But she would be the first person to knock herself off that pedestal. That is just ONE reason she is loved.

Hope you are well Jack...it's good to have you back.

Mickey

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I concur Mickey.

Thanks.

[saffie]

Lissie,

Hope you are ok.

I tried to send you an email about that mug - I kknow it's not important at the moment but the email got sent back as undeliverable??????

Take care

Saffie

[AmyC]

...it doesn't seem weird to me or to her or to our other friends You sure? . I sometimes forget that not everyone is privy to our friendships. Right. The "sisterhood". Any friend I have at that level I love and talk about in the same way. Good for you, fig. I've said all I wanted to say whether I should have or not and it stands. It is unusual the way you talk about Lissett and although I do concur that she is a wonderful lady...you don't see me acting like the sun rises and sets on her shoulders. If you want to think your expressions regarding Lissett are simply indicative of your "special" friendship go right ahead but if you were a man, there's another name for it.

Lissett ~ To you, I apologize. I slipped into this thread not realizing the tone of the first few posts. I am sorry to have upset the flow. You do understand that I can't take back what I said nor would I. It's weird and not only to me. Peace, girl.

[Mickey]

Hi AmyC,

I understand your feelings about this, but I don't understand your anger. I will say this out of respect and I truly hope you hear this the way I intend it. You're anger gets the best of you at times. I hope you can find peace within. You have so much to offer.

Mickey

[Cinderellaman]

Lissie, I hope all is well...miss you. Take care and be safe !

[a new 2moro]

Gee Lissie....i dont read your thread and look what happens. This is supposed to be a tribute to your kindness, strength and courage....end of statement!!!!!