Exactly. She didn't hesitate to use her Lawyer. Follow her lead. Document each and every time. If she is violating your custody order she should be taken to task for it.

My X has this nasty habit of making plans for my son w/o discussing it with me first. His latest was to sign the kid up for a class that is held every weekend during the month of September while he {the X} had vacay planned for two weeks and wouldn't even be in the area. I am up to my eyeballs in wedding plans for my daughter and don't have the time or the energy to get the kid back and forth two days a week every weekend. I refused to play his silly game and he ended up making all the arrangements for the kid to get to class for the entire month. You would think he could figure out that I won't play his stupid games after all this time. The kid will be 18 in 9 months. I am just counting down the days at this point. Funny how they never change, isn't it?

GAH! Your kidlets are 5 and 7? Mine are 17 and 22. A senior in High School and a College Grad getting married next month. HOW did this happen? Doesn't the chat room fun seem like a million years ago???

~ Cissy aka Lurkerbabe

Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}