I have simply documented everything she has done and will speak to my L about her many violations of our custody order. After this last spat, I have come the conclusion that whatever X does to me will roll off my back and I will use my L to communicate my wishes.
Exactly. That is why you have a lawyer. As much as we would like to have our X's work WITH us where the children are concerned it rarely works out that way. Don't count on her changing her patterns. As cold as it may seem treating it like a business is often the best way to go especially when the X is seriously uncooperative.
It's like old home week on this thread, my friend. Good to see you alive and well.
~ Cissy
{hi ya, Leenie-girl}
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}