If you are this hesitant to show a particular movie, I think you know your answer. I do this too, and then realize, "If I have to think about it this much, then it probably isn't a good idea." Stick with a movie you are COMPLETELY comfortable with. There's lots out there. Wizard of OZ will always be there later on when you have no doubt they will enjoy it.
As for your H, I am so proud of you. You certainly have come a long way! I have read over and over again that the key is to delve into that what does not come naturally to us and to 180 our comfort zones, our more of the same. You are making huge strides in your development, not just baby steps. Be patient with your H, he has to finish this on his own (as you already know).
Have a great weekend. Sounds like everyone's doing movies tonight. Sounds like a great idea. I think I'll follow suit. The kids love it, especially when there's popcorn involved
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