I *could* put the procedure off 6 weeks. We are supposed to officially revisit things at the 3 month point which would be the end of October beginning of November.
All of a sudden, I am wondering if by putting the kibosh on sex (when he has only been out 6ish weeks and we have only been "dating" for 3ish weeks) is such a good idea. It seems like such a short time period.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing