I am waffling.

I *could* put the procedure off 6 weeks. We are supposed to officially revisit things at the 3 month point which would be the end of October beginning of November.

All of a sudden, I am wondering if by putting the kibosh on sex (when he has only been out 6ish weeks and we have only been "dating" for 3ish weeks) is such a good idea. It seems like such a short time period.


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing