Yeah don't know how long I am going to hold out. If he is out there dating and has clearly told me as much then I don't see the point. I may be the WAS but apparently I am also (maybe always have been) the one who is trying to make things work. Even if it took me leaving to facilitate that. I guess maybe in my case H took the opportunity to move on with his life. A chance a WAS takes in general. But I was at the end of my rope so what did I really have to loose? A bad marriage?
I guess I just sad that he didn't want to work on our M as badly as i did/do.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
