And, honey...you aren't losing your mind - you are just reacting to him losing his mind!
Thanks W8ing..I am just so burnt out..I have wasted this past week writing lists of the crap that OW has done in front and to the kids..Letter to XH..emailed L..called T. (no, I didn't give XH letter or lists..just for me to have in case we go to court)
It's amazing how you forget how exhausting all this b.s. is. It has brought me back to the place I was three years ago and it is pretty crappy.
I don't like waiting for the bomb to drop since there has been no XH contact since he emailed me.
I feel a little bit bullied because I have no reacted nor responded to his threat of taking kids 12 hours away.
I did call today and left a message on VM asking him, once again,for his itinerary on his impending trip. I told him via VM that I will not allow for the kids to go away to another country based on many reasons. However, I am all ears if you want to sit down in front of a T or simply you voice your concerns and/or opinions with me. Once again, I said convince me that the kids will be safe and secure and they won't be around abusive behavior when you and the OW are fighting. I would LOVE to hear that.
No call back.
So, off I go to do errands and try to get my mind off this crap.
I am not going to lie to any of you, the thought the the Rat is behind all this crap since she gets a free vacation makes me so mad..Why doesn't she just stay the F out of it!
