WAW, We have alot of similarites in our sitch and I have the same thing that you have about why would I want the H back because of the way that I was being treated.
When we were together, I didn't care about going out with others all that much unless something big was planned and unless something was going on with friends we never just planned on getting a baby-sitter and just going out for drinks. He always wanted to get out but I was content at just being home with the kids. After this whole ordeal and when he has the kids, I just got to get out now and go have fun. Sounds like your H is going thru the same.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
