GoodGuy... Keep your hopes up. I can't relate (yet), but I can understand. It's almost like torture!! I was in the Marines for 6 years, and I would much rather spend a year in Boot Camp at Parris Island than go through this!!
Nugget.. I agree. While she says she's angry, she says she will be civil. I think it's her way of saying "I'll be nice, but don't expect anything."
I'm working on the "as-if"
She asked this morning if I'd gotten the proposal from her L. I said I did and that my L was going to verify the numbers. She was very upset by this.. I think she knows that her L tried to screw me and they thought I would just sign the papers without protecting myself. I told her I thought things looked fair (BS!!) but my L wanted to double check everything. She started ranting about what are you wanting to change etc, etc. I just diffused and said my L is checking it out.
It wasn't a good way to end our meet, but there wasn't much I could do.
I texted her afterward to let her know I took care of some horse related stuff she had asked and got no response.