I tried something, and it totally worked. I'll just explain my sitch and you can see if it would work for you. I've been thinking about exposing my H's affair to the OW's parents (just by typing it out, I know it sounds stupid). Anyway, she's been this situation before and my sources tell me that her parents are very against her carrying on with married men, esp since she has a young son. Well, I really thought I was going to do it Tues, I had their number and everything, but I decided to pray about it. Wednesday night at Bible class we had a lesson on malice and I decided not to do it. Not only would it be bad DBing, but seeking revenge on OW is not my place. It's also bad for me to hope bad things happen to her (ok, i don't want her to die, but I want her to be lonely, embarrassed, sad, etc), it's only hurting me.
Maybe this applies to your sitch, maybe not. Doesn't Nomo always say wait 48 hrs? That could also apply.
