Yeah it's sad I know. I'm still lurking here for the last 5 years. Was actually doing a search on 'Berto' to see if you sneaked a post in the last few years.
Your sitch still sounds screwed but alot better after all that ED and mental crap. Can definitely see some healing going on but still some way to go.
The fact that you posted here looking to sort things out tells me that you are kinda torn between the ex and the gf. The fact that gf notices those things doesn't really bode well for the R.
I'm sure you'll work it out and the good people here will help you get there.
God Bless,
Suit
"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"
