Morgan--That must be so hard to watch. It seems that he is wavering, that the guilt is getting to him.
I know that I'd like to get my H to read the book that I am reading (After the Affair), but I have no idea how to get it into his hands--it is enabling, trying to fix things for him. It is so hard to sit back...Is there a title that you can direct his mom to, that she can give to him? Moms are in a better position to "fix" things; isn't it what we are expected to do?
As far as you taking care of you and giving him the space and time to walk his own walk--it goes to show just how strong you are. We will all hope and pray that he watches your example...