He is sick but he is not your child. He is a man but he needs to cowboy up for himself, you and his kids. Morgan, I am sure he will appreciate all that you have done for him. You have been his rock, but if he is truly sick, and I believe MLC counts as a "sickness", the emotional abuse from the affair crosses that "better or worse" boundary. Do you think the anniversary and memories of the previous year are also on his mind? Does he openly talk to you about your upcoming anniversary or does he just ignore it?
Re: Wizard of Oz. I am shocked that my D6 1st grade teacher read this original novel to them. It is a very violent story filled with many ideologies and metaphors concerning socialism and capitalism, etc. The movie is also very frightening with the witch and the monkeys but the rest seems fine. The music is great. It was our Thanksgiving tradition when we were kids.
Good luck with your goals. I am sorry about Vegas. I mentioned to my H I would be fun too if I got to do all the things they do while they are having an affair, dinner, camping, concerts, hanging out all day with no kids or a real job getting high and drunk. But that is not happiness. That is a depressing addiction. It is an addiction. A nightmare. Your H may be going through a similar wake up from his addiction.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
