I had copied that into my email pretty much word for word, but I think I will hold off. Only because I have to imagine that is just what the C will say to her. I think it will have more impact coming from a professional. Also that is "what I should have said" when she said that to me last night on the phone. Instead I lost to anger, and had to end the conversation. What I need is to have Frank in my head.

I thought about it more last night, and I think she knows that she is full of $#!t. Afterall, her wxact words were always, "I know that S8 is active, but if anyone ever told me that he had ADHD, I'd snap(or pull him from the school, or ect.) XW always thought that kids should not be medicated for behavior problems..... Now I'm getting quotes form med websites describing S8's behavior.
Does anyone think that maybe the reason this is all coming up now, with the meds, and the "uncontrollable impulsive behavior" is that maybe OM is having a problem with the kids? It's been almost 2 years..... The initiall "lovey dovey everything will always be perfect as long as we have each other" feelings have probably worn off. I don't know, but I really don't want those 3 boys to be caught up in their drama.

I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.