I was reading your thread, and think how the retrouville weekend may help you both. My H and I did it this past weekend, and it was a wonderful experience, it can only help! It can't do any further harm, it will help you to learn how to communicate in a better way that neither partner will see as being threatening. It really has seemed to help my H and I, we sit each night and talk, and tell each other our feelings, and no one has become defensive, angry or hurt...it helps! We start our post sessions tomorrow, and we are both looking forwarded to them, I think its because it will continue to build on the past weekend and improve things. Please really give this weekend some serious thought, it may help with some of the pain you feel, it certainly has helped me to let go some of mine, in fact alot of it!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
