Still Seperated and Hopeful

[Heartbroken]

MC,

In response to a way earlier question about the effect of me going dark on my H he said:

He felt it was a combination of seeing how he was truly losing me (and our friendship) and starting to see the OW in a real light (she is actually more controlling than I was and was very manipulative with H) so the A was becoming less glamorous/enticing...

I was really getting ready to get together with a mediator and start the D proceedings, I was approved for a mortgage and I was taking my kids through possible new homes ---so I was really moving on. I had FINALLY made it clear to H that we were not going to be buddies - we would co-parent and that would be the extent of our R.

Sounds like you CW wants it both ways - she wants to be introduced as a couple but yet wants to talk about when you have moved on with your life. She seems to be doubting her (or what she thought was her) decision - she sounds like she is looking at YOU in a different light.

You cannot control her or the crazy thoughts she is having - just keep GAL'ing and do stuff for you and your sons. Take care and enjoy your weekend!!

HB