Advice needed - so its now been 3 days of radio silence, and some of my friends believe I should drop her an email, no R talk, just 'how you doing, hope all is fine, take care' sort of thing. Views? I do not want to infringe on her new freedom nor give her any reason to think I am pushing her, pressurising her, snooping on her, etc, but same time I want to honor my statement that I would be here for her as a friend no matter what she did or was doing with OM?


Me - 39
W - 33
M - 5yrs
Bomb - 8/5 2007
Moving out - 9/8 2007