(((HUGS))) neph, a lot of wisdom here with mk and lwb. take care of yourself. take a breather, don't think about his stuff unless its in your way.
I did pull h's stuff out of my room, I needed to not see it, so I put whatever was left in the basement. he still has some stuff there...he has no real place to put it all, but at least it isn't a daily reminder of him, at least I'm creating my own space w/o him. but this doesn't have to be done right this minute, if at all.
good luck, and stay strong!
(oh, and I could spend $100 at trader joes in a heartbeat)
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
