Living Arrangements- You can still DB and make the primary home a safe haven for him. Because he has expressed himself with physical violence he may never feel as comfortable without a lot of trust rebuilding and that may take counseling. He has to be willing to do that in the least. You cannot control where he lives. Believe me. But once they get their own apts. is it any better? They will still be up to no good but just have less money. They do this because they think it is easier to start over, but how they are soooo wrong. A R mired in deceit and sneaking around with no history, approval, or foundation is just a damaging fling. It will end most likely.
Please, please, how do we stop this cycle so my D does not grow up feelinglike her Dad abandoned her? In my Mexican family the cheating goes back at least three generations!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."