I know what you mean. Of course, at this point, is it really about blame? It seems to be about choice to me. He has chosen to continue on his path of mindless denial. He has chosen to continue being deceitful and dishonest. He has chosen to ignore your boundaries when it's convenient for him.
I agree... it is about choice. Does that not put much of the blame on him though, when he chose to continue this way? Whether he realizes it or not, I think the light was pointed at him today when I stuck up for myself and my decision.
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You have chosen to give yourself the respect you used to wait for him to give. You have chosen to expect nothing less for yourself. You have chosen to look long and hard at yourself and dig out the things you don't like. You have chosen to change. You have chosen to move on with your life, instead of letting it be dependent on moving forward based on someone who will not make these choices.
Thanks, HS!!! Thanks for noticing.
Cheers to owning your choices.
Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.
