I asked H to leave; regret-now what?

[Luluber1]

I saw my H for the first time in a month. He called and asked if he had any mail and I said yes. He said he was 10 minutes away and was it okay to drop by; I said "sure." I got really nervous and tried to remember how to act.

Then he called and said "I'm parking the car, I'll be there in a few seconds." When I opened the door he was walking up and I smiled, then he smiled. I invited him in but he declined. As I handed him the mail I asked how he was doing, "good, and you." I said "good" and then I said "I miss you." It just slipped out. He said "I know, I know" quietly. Then he said he had to run to a meeting and said goodbye.

I was happy that he didn't ask for the rest of his clothes, or talk about divorce, or look angry. So I'm taking this meeting as a positive.