Don't sweat the slp ups, just don't make them twice The pix staying up is just plain strange. I'm in the same boat. Our W pix are still on the mantle, though I know she's had an OM over at least once, and suspect more (though who knows if same one). My C says same thing, why would she keep them up. I think, and this is just on my W, that she is so self involved she doesn't want to be the one that changes things. Will give her a reason to put it on me if I were to take them. Also, would give her solace and remove her guilt if I took first action on taking them down. I leave them, why would I want them? Now I'm just curious if a year from now when D is long final if they still are there? Makes me laugh a bit. W wanted D but doesn't want to take things like that down. Wierd, wierd, wierd.
Me 32 WAW 30 D Bomb 7/9 Separated 7/15 Reiterated bomb 8/12 PA 8/21 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1198643