That's what floored me about this. There's been so many positive things like the I miss you comments that I've been taking to mean that maybe things were turning a corner in her mind and then she comes back and flipantly says that we're porbably going to D. That and she's said twice over the past two weeks that we're dating which I took to mean a step towards reconciling.
I made an appointment with Jody tomorrow to see what she thinks and if she can find anyway to help me patch up my mis-step. I'm going to run this by Jody but I think if I can get W to bring up the R this weekend when she has time to talk about it, I need to get an answer from her about where she thinks we're going. If were dating then I'll continue trying to work on my issues and be nice and supportive towards her but if not, if she's set on the D then I don't think being available to her is in my best interests. I don't think she's felt any kind of loss about the R yet as she can still call me for support and talk to me about her day; she's getting the best of both worlds. I'm not sure if that'll work against me though as she VERY stubborn and hurt and if she sees me pulling back, it might be a green light for her to get on with it.
