morgan, you have handled this very well. Now....try....not to jump in too deep with him. Remember detached?? Don't try to pull him too close. He basically came to you with his issues, and I know you love him (heck, I feel sorry for H tonight because he has a headache), but he needs to hit this rock bottom, whatever it is, in order for him to climb out of it.
And yes, he needs a good therapist, a really good one.
I am glad he is safe. Its probably driving you crazy not to know what it is that's exactly going on. My H has had a few breakdowns (tears and crying) in the last month and he only says "Everything" when I ask him what's wrong. I don't go any further, but do tell him I hope he feels better.
Keep us posted. Is he leaving tomorrow to go to Vegas?
