Yes, but that coming out on top stuff, landing on her feet stuff---that's just now, and now is nothing, in terms of time's flow. We're all just too used to watching movies and getting to the happy ending in 102 minutes. You won't believe me, but six months from now, you may have very fuzzy and shifting memories of all this crap. But somehow it will have branded you for the good... you wait and see: while the people who have hurt you will still be spinning like tops, yammering on about The secret and their happiness, as though yammering will make it so.