Tonight we had a meeting at S6's school. We met there. As we were walking in, she made a comment about my teeth and asked if I was doing something to whiten them. I told her I was, expecting her to say that she thought it looked good. Instead, she got semi po'd, saying that I would have never done that for her. She made it seem that she had been on me to do it or something. At most, she commented about the OTC strips she used periodically. She never said I should do it.
I replied that I was doing it for myself that now I was taking better care of myself and taking more of an interest in how I looked.
I was pretty upset by her comments. Later in the evening I brought it up and told her that her comments were way off base. She simply replied that "when we were married" I would have never done this for her. I replied that "when we were together", I didn't take my appearance and weight seriously and allowed myself to fall apart. She quickly said that it wasn't about weight. (Of course not, FOM is fat.) It was about how I treated her.
She then asked me if I liked it that everyone (whoever that is) feels "poor MC" I told her that no I didn't and she brought up that's how my family feels. She also said that when I meet someone new they will all like her because they all feel that she (CW) was so bad to me. I replied that I knew what I had done wrong in our relationship and that is all that matters.
What is going on here. One minute I feel like we are not necessarily making progress, but that she is interested in me and then this. When we were at the school event, the teacher had us go around the room and introduce ourselves. when it was my turn I introduced myself not her. She was mad that I didn't introduce us as a couple. WTF.....
Sorry for rambling.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
