That OT post was outstanding. Really what I needed to hear because I think I'm one of those people "chasing the cat". I guess for me, it feels like giving up if I do what OT's talking about which is why I haven't. But, truth is, W is probably not going to come back with the way I have been acting even though I have improved some things. It's so damn depressing though, coming home from a trip and having no one at home and no one to call who cares that I'm home safe. Sorry for the thread hijack.
