Thanks both for looking in , I am keeping up with your sitchs and will post to you both at some stage , right now at work with limited time.
you both make good points and she is in that "treading water" stage.
I am close to the moving on stage where I have had enough and think OK lets just get on with it so we can get on with life. But I am very aware that I have know real idea of where she is at. I just get back to my main Goal , that is what will be best for my family and right now thats to give things some more time.
Continue to focus on my personal Goals but not move on yet. In amongst this I am trying to build some "attraction" because I firmly believe that if she does decide to come back it needs to be because she wants to come back to me.
Its hard to get down on paper the connection that we have and last night on the phone it was there , we were talking about what other people have said to us and advice we have been given. We actualy agreed this is "our" separation and to heck with other people we can do this "our" way.
Personaly I have no expectations , am realistic in knowing things could go either way , I am happy in myself and right now i treat this as a growing and learning experience .
