I was feeling kind of frustrated because to me it seems like (although you might not mean it that way at all) I'm your friend with DD boobs and you are telling me that if I go buy some sort of special reducing bra, I'll be able to look classier in certain kinds of clothing and you are giving me this advice from the kindness of your heart.
My. God. No. It would be like you telling me to stuff my B cup so I can have deeper cleavage. AAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think we are so busy trying to be heard we can't hear. And I think you and I really are on the same page. You're just speaking french... and Corri, in her worm glasses, is speaking Latin. A dead language. LOL!