I am reading a book called After the Affair, that tells the story from both sides--those who are hurt, and those who have an affair.
We all know how we are feeling, but it was interesting to read about the other side--how they are so overcome with the multitude of choices, that they become paralyzed by them all, not sure where to go, so they often just tread water for quite a while.
I'm still reading, but may post something about WASs if I find out anything that seems helpful.
