Sara,

I am not expecting a response from her. I just wanted to get her thinking about us. If there is an us. So like you said when our conversation does come up she has had time to think. But what I don't think she may realize is that after our conversation things will be different. One way or another because the room mate thing is not an option anymore.
None of this was in the book by the way. It’s my own doing / thinking

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know