Hi ST -

I can relate. I find myself wondering, do you ever get to a point where it's ok to just sit back and relax - or are you always wondering if things feel TOO good, when the next bomb's gonna drop. I mean you thought things were mostly OK before right? Not saying anything's wrong in your sitch, just saying I can see where that feeling comes from.

Sorry about your Krib babies!! I imagine it's rare for all that many to make it to adult hood, but that still had to be really sad. Hope that at least some of them make it, that would be really cool to have fish you raised from babies.


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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