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but I guess when they are not into it, they are not into it.
That is what she has said essentially 'I do not have that loving feeling for you'. Whatever.

You are right that we have to GAL and let them go. It is just so painful missing her.

Actually, one of the positives in this whole mess is that I have reconnected with God and attend church regularly, including bible study. I am by no means a bible beater, or judgemental, but simply want to learn more. My WAW actually seems a little annoyed that I am now into going to church, whereas during our marriage I showed no interest, which is something I now regret.

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I could be reading into it wrong, but it is not a coincidence.
Could you please elaborate on this statement - what exactly is not a coincidence?

I know we will come out alright, and I can not help but believe that my W will one day have regret. Who knows though, I could be wrong.

Thanks and good luck to you as well.


Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM