I am just curious do you think HIM thinking you have a boyfriend is a good thing? It very well could backfire and make him be okay with even more physical contact with OW. Kind of like he may think it is okay because you are commiting adultery to he thinks.
Also just curious did he try anything physical when you two were together all week? I know I have heard when there is a physical affair the sex is one of the first things that stop. Maybe if that starts changing around it could be a positive sign.
It does sound like your husband loves you but is just torn right now. But more and more it sounds like he is coming closer to commiting.
