First, I am havin gtrouble finding "No More Mr. Nice Guy". My library does not have it and the Barnes and Noble does not carry it in the store. Any other bookstore chain carry it?
Second, I read some notes about the book, and it makes it clear that men can suck all the life out of women, and I believe this happens between me and my wife, after having the whopping sex 10 times a year. My goal would be to up the sex to 150-200 times a year (I know, my fantasy world), so how can a man achieve this without sucking the life out of the woman? It would seem to me that any sex life that carries the emotional connection requirement would ALWAYS drain a LD woman.