Yeah, thanks Dom, you're right on that. Like I said I was really upside down, more so because it was so unexpected. I thought I really had my head on straight and that I was doing what I needed to do for me to get through this. She asked me to call her when I get back to the hosue (am traveling now) so she knows I got home safe so hopefully that goes better. Any thoughts on the detachment? I'm having a really hard time detaching and staying hopeful. I can do it and still care but I can't seem to do it and think that things will work out.
This past week has felt like a huge setback and I'm not sure how to get things back on track. Divorce hearing is in three weeks and from what she said last night, she's planning on making it. I know I need to let it go and just be OK with whatever happens but there is a good bit of anxiety realted to it still. I really do appreciate everyone's help, I'd be a basket case without it.
