I guess I have referred to a "first" wife. I never intended for that to make it sound like I have multiple marriages. What I am referring to is ONE woman, who has been the HD personality type, and is now the LD personality type. One person with efectively 2 different personalities. Going from HD to LD is not just about sex, it COMPLETELY changes a woman, like they are 2 different women.
One marriage, same woman for 19 years. 2 VERY different personalities sharing the same body, just not at the same time. I see her as my HD wife (#1) and as my LD wife (#2). 2 years of # 1, 17 years of #2.