CPolk, I vote for saying yes to the invitation for sex. I think it will likely have a greater chance of increasing connection, and being something to build upon.
I know it's less than what you want, but unless you think you and your W can have a R talk about this, I would enjoy the moment, and see where it leads.
If the issue is that you're not ready to have sex with your W, than she needs to respect that. If the issue is the quality of sex, than I think you should use it as something to build upon.
CL
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"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
