cpolk, that is a difficult situation. Then again, maybe just having intimate physical contact can do some good? It may create some bonding or connection even if she says it doesn't? Your call though since you know your W better than any of us. Lots of relationship books say that if the R is going bad, having a lot of physical intimacy can help. TIFWIW.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
