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[Have Faith]

Yes, I see lots of hope in it. She isn't saying hey, it is over. Your profile doesn't give any information, so we don't know how long this has been going on, but I would assume that it has not been very long. It takes patience. You are both getting help. This says a lot. All you can be is friends right now. That is good. Work on yourself. She will see the difference over time. Give it time. Come to the board lots and read other people's threads. Read the book if you have not already.

"I want to continue on the relationship even with all of this." This is really good. It is hard not to zero in on the one or two words that give us doubt. Don't read too much into those words. They are often misunderstood.

Take care. You did a great job.

Faith