I believe my W will also regret her decision too. I see folks with problems so much bigger than mine, and they are still married. My W has made a life of running from problems instead of working on them. Nothing is her fault. Problem for me is that because I really believe I think she will regret it, I can't seem to let go. If I could I would love to show her parents all the email lies she told me and make sure they knew that this wonderful guy she is now with played a big role in breaking up a family and a marriage. And that her perfect daughter had an affair. But I will keep on dbing i guess.
