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if I was 'seriously' dating a man and wanted to live with him, be married to him , I would probably be having sex with him, so why would I deny someone that is actually my H?



Yup. that's my perspective on it for you too.
ALthough with that, should go the matching limits about, at what point with "someone you were dating", would you STOP having sex with him?

I dont think you're at that point yet. but it bears saying.

Last edited by Dom R; 09/20/07 05:26 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle