I think I have kept up with cm34/redheadwife's threads. I have gone back and read a little of RealJourney, (too much to read it all) I could have written RJ's story myself, down to the cooking in Dec./Jan. Are we long lost twins?
Corri, I really appreciate your insight/knowledge/experience.
It is making me aware that maybe my LD is due to.... contentment. Is there anything physical to this or is it all psychological? I am not on any meds. Why do some women totally shut off sexually after an A and others become HD? Or do we just become aware of our part in the problem? Why does it take such a betrayal to see the light? How do you keep it alive without having to go through the pain and such extremes?
Love at first sight is easy to understand; it's when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle. (Amy Bloom)
