I just wanted to say thanks for posting all this. I see many parallels to my situation so it's helpful.
Although I'm not divorced yet, we have been separated for a year and I get so many of the same confusing actions/statements from my wife that you've gotten from your ex. It seems you've made progress so that gives me hope.
One thing I do wonder, if she is moving 300 miles away from where she is now will OM even be in the picture after the move?
I recently told my wife during one of her "I don't know what I want and I'm so confused" speeches the other day that I am no longer even interested in talking about reconciling as long as OM is around. I guess I'll see where that gets me.
