Theo, I get what you are saying and I agree with most of it. The problem is when I talk to my DB coach her recommendations are a bit different because H is still at home, wearing his wedding ring, etc. - more in than out as she says. So, yes.. I have set some additional goals that I'm not comfortable writing here and a deadline. We'll see what happens in the next month with my change in approach. I'm not against an ultimatum in the near future.
In the meantime, I need some opinions. I have a lunch set up with a male friend who I haven't seen for a while. It's purely platonic (at least on my side) but this friendship has always made my H nervous for some reason. Should I tell H about the lunch? If so, how do I bring it up?
