RJ:

Two more quick thoughts I wanted to throw at you. If you are up for it... you could say to your H tonight... "hey honey, next time you MB, would you mind if I watched?"

And two... when you start radical honesty... you will discover that you quickly run out of things to say and talk about, because your mind doesn't have anything to justifying... build a case, for or against, kwis?

And then you go... holy shcit! I have nothing to say... I have no reason to be unhappy. NOW WHAT?! You start exploring... : grin :

Once you get the hang of it... you NEVER run out of a thing to say, ever again... because now what you share is new and exciting... \:\) (And I say that in comparison to just transferring necessary information between you and your H or OP. There is a dif, kwis?)

Corri