Good luck to you jak - I agree with CL's advice, don't walk on eggshells, keep it positive, and talk about what you'd like to see. Also good idea to have a plan in place depending on the response.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread