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[Have Faith]

Tell her you are ok considering what is going on. She is not ready to hear how you really feel. She needs to see you as strong. This is a very critical time for you. Don't be weak. Let her know that you have some issue to deal with and that you are getting help with them and thank her for her concern.

If you can afford it, I would also suggest using the DB telephone coaches in addition to any help you can get for your depression. They are wonderful and so helpful. It is expense, but worth it. I always feel soooooo much better after I have talked to my coach Jodi. I believe that my marriage is worth what ever money I have to spend on saving it.

Faith