And are you okay with the fact that you went to separate beds? Did you not want to go to separate beds? Did you do anything/say anything that would express that to her? And btw, I see that as expressing yourself, not as an expectation.
Have you asked her, as a matter of clarity, how she felt about going to separate beds?
Or, have you told her, as a matter of clarifying yourself to her, how you felt about it? (no blame involved... just transferring info.)
